I am 28. The internet was a part of my life for as long as I can remember. It seemed less flashy and more text-based when I think back to when I was a small child.
Pornography has been a large part of the internet for me. I think was about 12 when I discovered porn on the internet and it has certainly evolved. Initially, there were galleries of pictures, then tube sites came along. At first clips were all relatively short, 1 to 5 minutes. Now, of course, there is a virtually unlimited supply of free pornography online, which includes movies that are often 20 minutes to an hour long and are in HD. I have heard that pornography is often the first adopter of new technology and that it has been a part of the success of each successive visual medium from beta, VHS, DVD, to streaming content. I think it may be a big driving force behind the new VR technologies. Porn companies have already started making 3D, virtual reality porn.
At around the same age that I learned about online porn, I self-diagnosed myself with paruresis, which is an inability to pee in public. There are countless variations of this ranging from annoying to debilitating. There is an online support community at paruresis.org and they hold workshops around the country. When I was in middle school, going to one of these workshops seemed like a good idea, but out of the question, because they were usually in large cities and I didn’t have the means for traveling. Eventually, around age 24 I attended a workshop in Chicago. My point is that I think the internet creates niches for people with rare issues or interests. In the past, people probably felt more isolated and unusual, but with the internet it is possible to find like minded people for even the rarest of minds.
The internet has also had a large impact on how I shop. Without the internet I would probably shop a lot less, because going to stores is annoying and I am very irritated by pushy sales people. Malls are one of my least favorite places, because I don’t like crowds. When I was younger and still living with my parents my dad got into Ebay. He bought lots of K-State memorabilia, toy trains, and movies. I took after him in that regard. I buy almost everything, except food and hygiene products, online off of Amazon.
As an introverted person the internet has exposed me to more than I think I would have experienced otherwise, online and offline. Documentaries have shown me unusual cultures that I would never seek out in real life. When the Silkroad was active, that gave me access to drugs that I wouldn’t have access to in any of my real life social encounters. Erowid was also a convenient source for learning about recreational drugs and reading about other’s experiences, good and bad, via the site’s trip reports.